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8 Ways To Make More Time In Your Day

8 Ways To Make More Time In Your Day :: Nurturedmama.net

This is a post I wrote last year about how I made time to work toward a dream in the midst of raising an active toddler. Whether you are looking to make more time in your life for creativity, or for working on a big project, these tips are still so very applicable. I’m pulling them out of the archive to share again.

In a life filled with small children, a home to keep running and a relationship to invest in, where does a mama find time to work on a dream? Don’t despair, you can always make time when something is really important to you. Here are a few ways I found time to get to my goal of launching this blog.

1. I scheduled it.

Scheduling time to work toward an important goal is essential. When you write your dream-building time into your calendar you are making a commitment both to yourself and to your dream. When those hours are blocked off on your calendar and a conflict arises, it is so much easier to say, “I’m sorry, I’m already scheduled then.” Because you are.

Can you find one or two hours you can hold sacred each week?  It should be a time that you can keep fairly consistent week to week. If you have small children, see the next tip. 

2. I paid for it.

Writing a check to someone else to care for my child so I can go work is very motivating. I’m far less tempted to “just see what’s on Facebook” when I know how much I’m paying for my hour of screen time. I used those focused hours for tasks that needed my full, focused attention: Writing, solving tech issues, and reading up on new skills. This is my scheduled work time each week.

Can you afford a couple of hours of childcare each week for your small children? Hiring a mother’s helper to entertain kids while you work in a different room or trading childcare with another mom are affordable ways to find that space, too.

3. I made my work portable.

When my daughter was an infant I spent many hours each day nursing her. While that seemed like a great opportunity to read and research, invariably every time I needed to access a file it was on the computer or device that I did not have near me.  I signed up for DropBox and moved my commonly accessed files there. Then I started using Workflowy and Evernote for my to-do list and project notes. Now I keep almost everything in the cloud, which means I can get to whatever I was working on earlier from wherever I happen to be now, regardless of which chair I’m sitting in or if I’m even at home. I also found a Bluetooth keyboard case for my iPad, which is small enough to tuck in the diaper bag and carry along with me.

In what ways can you re-imagine your work zone?  How can you make it smaller or more portable so that it fits better into the flow of your day?

4. I lowered my expectations.

I take pride in a job well done, while staying just this side of being a perfectionist. But I can not do all that I want to do in my life, while raising a small child, unless I make peace with “good enough.”  Instead of a spotless house, I define a swept floor, clean toilets, and a wiped-down counter as good enough. A shower, some gel in wet hair and a swipe of eyeliner is good enough. Simple graphics and clean design on my blog are good enough. Writing impressions of experience of motherhood with an authentic voice is good enough for now. In some later season of my life I can do these things better, but right now I live within good enough.

I have also had to get used to less than ideal working conditions: I work while my child sleeps, sometimes in the driver’s seat of my car. I stand at the kitchen counter and write while she plays near me. I research my tech troubles late at night before I find my answers and sometimes it takes more than one night. I have lists upon lists of ideas and goals and projects in notebooks that have pages covered with scribbled toddler drawings. It is not ideal. But if I had waited for ideal, you would not be here reading this article because this blog would not exist.

In what ways do you need to lower your expectations in order to get your dream to see the light of day?

5. I found pockets of time.

When Bean was a baby I would read books while she nursed. I read a lot those first few months! Remembering that, I started looking for other pockets of time that I could claim to focus on my blog project. In my life those gaps were mostly waiting for Bean to go to sleep or waiting for her to wake up, if she fell asleep in the car. For someone with older kids those gaps might be found on the sidelines during sports practice, at the doctor’s office, or in line for school pickup.  I also looked at where I was spending time each week and dropped activities and commitments that I was no longer excited about. This is one tip to use sparingly, because your brain needs downtime, too. Don’t fill up all of your margins unless you what you are putting into those spaces is rejuvenating for you.

Where in your life can you find pockets of time that you can fill with small tasks like brainstorming, making lists or reading?

6. I relaxed my principles.

I was not going to be one of those moms who entertained my kid with an iDevice. Until I became one. It turns out there are some really well designed fun and educational games for toddlers that Bean really loves.  She also enjoys looking at photos and videos on my phone.  She gets to watch her life on replay, and I get a few minutes to finish something.

Are there any areas where you could relax a principle, whether it is letting your child watch an educational show one hour a week, or eating pre-prepared food a little more often?

7. I matched tasks to my energy level.

I am not a morning person. But I have a toddler who wakes up at 6AM, if not earlier. With that early start and a full day of keeping up with her, my brain is toast by dinner. I used to be able to work long into the night but that is no longer an option. Now my most productive times of day are late morning and early afternoon.  So I have scheduled my childcare over those windows two days a week and I do my heavy lifting tasks then.  Whenever else I find time during the day I do easy stuff – making idea lists, commenting on blogs and responding to emails, for example.

What is your most mentally productive time of day?  What can you do to clear yourself some space during that window?

Little bits of time do add up, and using that time efficiently will get you where you want to go.

How do you find extra moments in your days? Share them in comments below.

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Get Organized Using Your Smart Phone (on Modern Alternative Mama)

Get Organized Using Your Smart Phone

As a former project manager for large and complex projects in the computer software industry, I know a bit about keeping information organized and my workflow streamlined.  When I got my first iPhone I thought it was a cool gadget and that it would be handy to be able to check my email and surf the web from anywhere.

I really had no idea the impact that one device was going to make on my life. Now, several models and many technical advances later, I can say that my smart phone has changed the way I live.

Read the rest of this post on Modern Alternative Mama.

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An Anti-Resolution Manifesto

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I’m a natural planner and organizer. It is deeply embedded in my personality. I sort things for fun.

I love to set goals and break down projects into achievable steps. I love lists and crossing things off of them. This kind of thing used to be my career and I loved it.

But what I don’t love is planning and goal-setting in January.  I don’t like New Year’s resolutions.

I do love the feel of the fresh start of a new year. I love the blank slate of possibility. I love the room to dream about what the future might hold.

But in January what I want to do most is sleep. I want to clean my house of all the Christmas stuff and make everything fit back into their proper places (this takes some doing, after the influx of holiday gifts for a 3-year-old!). I want to eat a lot of vegetables to counter all the crap I ate in December. I want to perfect my green smoothie recipe and sit in the sun with a book as often as there is sun to sit in.

This week I’m delighted to have a clean kitchen counter and a dining room table with only candles on it. Until we hosted Christmas dinner, that table was covered with strewn papers and stacks of mail and magazines that needed going through. All that stuff went in a box that I have since mostly cleaned out.

Now I can sit at the counter and doodle while my daughter watches her beloved Dinosaur Train on Netflix. We can sit down to dinner without shoving a pile of stuff to one side. These things feel like enough accomplishment for the moment.

I have made some space and in this space I can breathe. I can rest.

What I need most right now is room to breathe. I need to process 2013 still. I need to think about what I want to invite in to my life this year. I need to think about where I am with this blog and my business and what things feel exciting to do next. That is a process that cannot be forced. It needs breathing room to unfurl.

I’m not ready to take pen to paper and commit to resolutions or goals or plans. I’m just not ready.

Maybe you’re there, too? Does it all feel like too much, too soon?

Already this month I have been inundated with articles, posts and sales pages about planners, workbooks, worksheets and classes on how to kick this year off right, get things happening in my life or business, and all the resolutions that all these productive people were committing to.

This year I said no. No resolutions. No plans. No lists.

Not until February.

Next month I’ll think about the rest of the year. This month I’m just going to rest in gratitude for having survived the last one. This month I’m going to invite my heart to tell me where it wants to go, instead of using my head to lead the way.

Will you join me?

Leave a comment and let me know how you are making yourself some room to breathe this month.

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Soul-Fed Mama: Make Big Progress In Just 15 Minutes

Make Big Progress In Just 15 Minutes, part of the Soul-Fed Mama series on www.nuturedmama.net

This morning I am feeling overwhelmed. I have lists of projects I want to work on, a calendar full of things I have committed to, and the buzzing background thoughts of household chores and cleaning and fixing that I need to deal with. I am having trouble focusing on any one thing to accomplish anything.

Instead of working productively on anything, I’m letting myself get distracted by Facebook and email, which are decidedly unproductive.

Does this sound familiar?

The way out of this is to start somewhere, do one thing, and give it your entire focus. Even if you only give it a short amount of time, you will accomplish something. That accomplishment will propel you forward to the next task and the next and before you know it your list will be shorter and your shoulders will feel less burdened.

I love the 15 minute method. 15 minutes feels achievable. I can always find 15 minutes in a day to do something focused. What is amazing, though, is how much you can actually accomplish in only 15 minutes.

The idea is to so simple. Just set a timer for 15 minutes and work on one project until the timer goes off. Don’t let yourself get distracted, don’t get up to do something else. Give it your whole focus.

Projects that seem completely daunting can be chipped away at in 15 minute blocks, until you see you have made huge progress.

One spring I completely weeded and cleared my front yard in 15 minute increments.  Each day when I got home from work, before I went into the house, I’d stop in the yard and pull weeds for 15 minutes. It didn’t delay my dinner for long, and it only took a couple of weeks before my former weed-lot was ready for re-planting.

Today I’m going to pick two projects and work on them for 15 minutes each.

In 15 minutes you can:

What project do you most want to make progress on today? What can you accomplish on it in 15 minutes?

This post is part of the 31-day Soul-Fed Mama series. Find the rest of this series here.

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Self-Care Challenge: Make a Meal Plan

cook book stack

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Back when I was working full time and didn’t have a kid, I used to read blogs about women who planned out their weekly (or monthly!) menus and think, “Wow, I could never do that.” I was attached to my spontaneity. I was unwilling to give up my weekend time to do the planning.

But then I had a kid and now I’m home all the time and I’m responsible for dinner. Every night. It seems really unfair how unrelenting that task is sometimes. Every night. Everyone expects to be fed. I like to cook, but I get so bored with making dinner after a while.

For months dinner was really stressful. I’d stand in front of the fridge, in my fuzzy sleep-deprived state, and wonder what I could cook. Every recipe seemed to be missing an ingredient or two. I’d go the store without a plan and leave with a large bill and food I planned to cook until I got it home and the next day I couldn’t remember what dishes I’d been thinking about. 10 potatoes and two artichokes? I’d end up back at the store two or three times each week, lugging the car seat back and forth, getting things I still needed. I’d have the excess still in the fridge that I’d end up throwing away later. And every night I’d be scrambling to get the meal on the table during the baby’s witching hour which was always right before her father got home from work and right during when I needed to be cooking.

That was when the wisdom of the menu plan finally dawned on me.

Now, each Sunday, I take a few minutes (really, it only takes about 15) and do a survey of what’s in the fridge and what’s on the calendar for the evenings in the coming week. I write down a plan for each night’s meal and then I make a shopping list to fill in the gaps. I go shopping on Monday and then that’s it. Each afternoon I consult the menu and I know exactly what I need to do for dinner. If Bean is having a rough day I might start some of the prep in the afternoon during her nap so I can get the food on the table really fast later. If something unexpected comes up, I can switch around the menu plan to make it fit.

As a result almost all the stress has gone out of making dinner. I have a dozen or so recipes that I know the family likes and that are easy to cook and I repeat them again and again.  A couple of nights a week we eat leftovers (and that’s right there on the menu: “leftovers!”) and generally one night a week we eat out. That means I really only cook three, sometimes four meals each week.

I can’t even tell you how much time this saves me over the course of a week. Not to mention the money I’m no longer spending on groceries we don’t need and the food I’m no longer throwing out because it has gone bad before I used it.

So here is my challenge to you this week:

Make and use a menu plan. Go shopping just once and challenge yourself to use everything up.

 

I’m not suggesting you jump in with both feet and do a big freezer/crock pot prep day (but if that’s your thing you might want to check out my crockpot pin board).  I’m just suggesting you make a plan, so you have a path to follow for your week.

If you’ll be eating out three nights, write that down so you know which days you are off the hook for a meal. If you’ll be out without the family one evening, schedule leftovers or something super simple that night so you aren’t scrambling when you are trying to get out the door. If you only have energy for frozen pizza, awesome. Write it down. If you know you’ll have more time and energy one day, schedule a meal that is a little more involved if that feels like fun.

I use a little one-week calendar white board that I found a Target to track our menu and our week’s evening schedule. It lives on the side of my fridge.  But you can use a simple note pad or log it into your regular calendar. My favorite recipes are in a notebook that I keep on the shelf with my cookbooks, but if you want some tips on how to do your planning more virtually, check out this great post on Simple Mom.

Give it a try and see if you can get back a few hours of your week for something other than shopping and meal-preparing. Because, really, we all have more interesting things to do than cook and shop! That’s so 1950!

 

Are you a menu planner? Do you have any other planning tips to share?

If this is your first time planning out your menu, let me know how it works for you!

 

P.S. If you need some new recipe inspiration or want to better organize your pantry, check out my affiliate link in the side bar for this week’s eBook Bundle of the Week, which is all about cooking.

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5 Tips To Keep Email From Ruling Your Life

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It amazes me that I used to manage hundreds of new email messages a day when I was working as a project manager, while now I get quickly overwhelmed by just a handful. I find myself with my nose to my phone, checking, checking, and still I have a backlog of unanswered and flagged messages that I need to deal with. It is crazy making.

I know how to manage email. I just haven’t been. So here I am in public, getting back on this horse.  Are you struggling with email, like me? Here are the ways I’ve managed my email in the past that I’m going to start using again.

Limit how many times you check your email each day.

I admit this is the hardest rule for me to follow, but I’m so very much happier when I do it. I really don’t need to know what is coming into my inbox every few minutes. Nothing is so urgent in my life that I need to check more than twice a day, really.

Turn off all audio and visual email alerts and set aside email time when you can actually sort and respond to everything at once. No more than 30 minutes! And not first thing in the morning.  Especially not while still laying in bed. I can’t believe I’m admitting that I do this.

Unsubscribe from everything you don’t really want to read.

This is the most important tip to get email volume under control. If you are signed up for newsletters and sales announcements and find yourself just deleting them unread then take those extra 30 seconds to get yourself off that list.  Set your Facebook and Twitter preferences to stop notifying you every time someone mentions you.

Only stay subscribed to things you look forward to reading. For me that is updates from just a couple of blogs that I love. To keep from having to do this over and over again, make sure to uncheck that little “keep me updated!” box every time  you order items online.

Use rules and threads.

Imagine if the mailbox in front of your house would automatically recycle your junk mail without you having to touch it.  Wouldn’t that be nice? Well, your email program can just about do that for you. Whether you use Gmail, Entourage or Apple’s Mail app, set up rules to sort, flag and filter messages so your email is pre-sorted for you.

For example, if you get blog updates by email, have them filtered into a folder to read later and all at once. If you can’t bear to turn off your social media notifications, filter them to a folder so you can review them in a batch. If you want to make sure not to miss important messages from your child’s teacher or school, set up a rule to flag those as soon as they arrive. Make folders for things you need to keep and reference later like receipts, directions and schedules and get those out of your inbox.

Utilize the threading feature to keep conversation threads together.

It might take a little while to set up all the rules you need, but they will save you so much time in the long run.

Keep your responses brief and your subject lines clear.

When you respond to a message, keep your answer to just a few concise lines. Don’t make your recipient guess what you are trying to say.If your response needs to be longer, flag it or put it in a folder to respond to later.  Set up time for yourself once a week or every couple of days to deal with these longer messages.

Check the subject line of messages before you send them. If your message topic is no longer what is indicated by the subject line, change it!

Keep your inbox empty.

I started using a method of flagging messages that I needed to take action on, but then my inbox was stuffed with a combination of flagged and unflagged messages and the sheer number of flags was overwhelming.

If you are starting with a stuffed inbox, do something radical. Make a folder and put your entire inbox in it. Go through it if you want, but really? If something really needs a response that person will follow up with you. Give yourself a clean slate.

Then set a goal to clear out your inbox completely during each of your daily email session.  Respond to, file, or delete everything until that inbox is empty.

Ah. Doesn’t that feel good?

Do you have more suggestions for managing email? I’d love to hear them!

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To Do Something Big, Start Small

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How do you know when you are ready to begin something big? How you know when you can handle a new pet? How do you decide when you are ready to expand your family? When do you feel ready to launch a blog or take a new job?

What if those are the wrong questions?

I think the right question to ask is, “What one step can I take toward what I want?”

I’d like to introduce you to the three newest members of our household: Honey, Rosie and Queen.

Queen, Rosie, and Honey

Queen, Rosie, and Honey

I have wanted to have chickens in the backyard for years, but each spring the chicks appear in the feed stores and I feel unprepared.  I don’t have a coop, I don’t know what breeds I want, I don’t know how to take care of them. Chickens live for a long time – 8 or 10 years for some breeds. I have trouble imagining my life more than a year or two from now, so making an 8-year commitment has given me pause every year. Until this year, when something shifted and I knew this was the spring we were going to buy chicks.

We really wanted chicks.

We really wanted chicks.

Raising chickens is my new big thing. These are the small steps I took that made my big thing not so scary after all.

Research

I made a list of questions I had about owning backyard chickens. I needed to know the zoning rules for my city. I needed to learn basic chicken care and what health issues to watch out for.  I needed to know how many chickens I could safely house in the amount of space I had. And I needed to know which breeds were recommended for both high egg production and living with a small child. Once I knew what I needed answers to, it was fairly easy to find those answers. I picked up and read a couple of books, I found some online forums on urban chickens and asked some questions, and I read through the zoning code.

Whatever your big project is, make a list of your unknowns. Break down the questions until you can answer them.

Build A Team

I knew I couldn’t shoulder the burden of chicken care on my own, even if I was their primary caretaker. I sat down with my guy and told him I really wanted to raise chickens, but I needed his support for the project. I explained all that I had learned in my research, what I thought the costs would be, and I showed him cute pictures of little kids and chickens (to illustrate the positive aspects, you know?). I may have also fed him an egg dish made with local farm chickens.

Get clear about where you need help to make your project move forward. Do you need help with the workload? Do you need extra childcare? Do you need a cheering squad or someone to hold you accountable? Reach out and ask for what you need. You may be surprised how much the people who love you want to help you achieve your dreams!

Sometimes dreams take a while to get pretty.

Sometimes dreams go through an awkward phase.

Have Faith

I don’t really know what to do with a sick chicken. I don’t know exactly when to switch my chicks from chick feed to laying feed. I know a lot more about chicks than I do adult hens, because chicks are what we have now. But I do know where to find more information when I need it. I trust that I will figure it out as I go.

[pq align=right]Don’t wait until you know everything to begin.[/pq] Trust yourself to experiment, learn, try and try again.

Commit

One Thursday in April, as I packed Bean off to Grandma’s house for the afternoon, I said, “When you come home, we will have baby chicks!”

I had a box and a heat lamp and a list of breeds that would meet my needs. I knew chicks were delivered on Thursdays at three feed stores in my county. We didn’t have an outside coop yet and I still wasn’t clear on feeding details. By that night we had three baby birds warm and cozy in our bathroom, peeping quietly to us as we settled down to sleep.

Sweet little balls of fluff.

Sweet little balls of fluff.

Research can become a procrastination tool. You have to leap. If you need to, set yourself a deadline. Take that first step. You might need to learn more before you can take the next step, but just begin.

A big commitment begins with a single step toward believing everything will be fine. Whether your commitment is getting chickens, starting a business, or moving across the country, the first step is just that, a step. It may not be a confident step, or a big step; it just needs to move you closer to where you want to go.

 

Bean and the "cheepies"

Bean and the “cheepies”

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How To Begin: 5 Steps To Get Your Project Moving

Beginning?

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It can be so hard to figure out how to begin when you have a big project that you want to accomplish.

There is that old advice, “Begin at the beginning,” but what if you don’t know where the beginning is?  What if the project seems so big and overwhelming that it seems impossible? No project is impossible, really, though sometimes the end result looks a little different than you thought.

Here are five tips to get from your vision to reality (and finding the path in between).

First, know your goal

Here is what I do.  I start by looking at the future. What is my goal in approaching this project? Say I want to start a blog. What is my goal?  Do I want to earn a tidy income? Do I want to build a community of like minds? Do I want to build a platform that will help me to launch other projects, like a book? Do I just want a place to write about what’s on my mind?

For this blog, my primary goal is to build a community. Which is not to say some of those other goals aren’t also true, but that’s my primary goal right now. Knowing my goal narrows down what I need to do and to know to get there.

Once your goal is clear to you, write it down. Be specific as possible. This may seem redundant, because, hey, you know what your goal is, right? But trust me, it is so easy to drift off of that target when you get into researching and other cool ideas pop into your head. So write it down.

There is great power in making this kind of clear statement. If you are a visual person, make a vision board that illustrates your goal and hang it somewhere where you will see it often. You don’t need to state your goal publicly, but put it somewhere where you can find it, because you will need to refer to it again and again.

Commit yourself

Next, commit some time. You know best what will work with your life, but don’t expect that this will be easy. Can you get up an hour earlier in the morning? Can you book yourself for an hour or two on a weekend day?  Can you commit one evening a week to working toward your goal? Find some space [link] and mark it on your calendar.  Make an appointment with yourself and do not schedule over it!

You cannot make progress toward a goal if you don’t put time toward it.  It is one thing to say you want something, but another thing to actually get there.

Make a List

Third, make a list of what you need to do to get from where to are to your goal.  To launch my blog, my list included things like “buy a domain” and “make a list of article ideas.” Refer back to your goal statement often.  When I was working on this blog I got sidetracked for quite a while researching how to monetize a blog. But then I reminded myself that my primary goal was to build a community. I didn’t need to know all about making an income right now, so I could move on.

If your individual steps feel too big, or if you when you look at your list you say, “I don’t  know how to do that,” then make the tasks smaller. Before I could buy the domain for this blog I had to decide on a name, research if it was in use, and decide which host I wanted to use. There were three more steps that I had to take before I could remove “buy a domain” from my list.

Don’t get discouraged if your list gets longer and longer at this stage! Breaking down your list into achievable steps means you will complete them instead of feeling overwhelmed by them. For every step you finish you will be that much closer to your goal.

Get some support

Fourth, and possibly most important, enlist a cheering squad. Find someone, or several people, who will hold you accountable to your goal and cheer you on when you falter.

Be a little careful about who you pick, though. For some people your cheering squad may include a husband or parent or sibling, and for others it will definitely not include those people. Your cheering squad should be people who will be gentle with you, who will encourage you to stretch your boundaries, and who will not undermine or belittle you for struggling or feeling scared.

It is scary to take on new things, especially when they are close to your heart! Pick people to cheer you on who will be overjoyed for you when you achieve your goals.

Begin

Finally, finally, this is where you begin.

Show up to your scheduled time.  Pick and item off your list and complete it.  Pick another item and complete that. I love to keep the finished tasks where I can see them, either just crossing items off as I go or making a separate “Achievements” list (sometimes known as a “ta-dah!” list). Leave yourself a trail to see how far you have come for those days when it feels like you have been working on this for so long and the goal still feels so far off.

So you have begun. Congratulations! Keeping yourself going through the middle of a long project is a whole other post that I will be sharing with you soon. But you have done the most important part. You have taken the first step.

What project you are working on?  Do you know what your goal is?  Share it with me in a comment or send me an email!

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7 Ways I Made Time To Launch With A Toddler, And How You Can Make Time For Your Dream, Too

You will never find time for anything

 

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Recently I wrote about the importance of having – and working toward – a dream.  But in a life filled with small children, a home to keep running and a relationship to invest in, where does a mama find time to work on a dream? Don’t despair, you can always make time when something is really important to you. Here are a few ways I found some time last year to get to my goal of launching this blog.

1. I scheduled it.

Scheduling time to work toward an important goal is essential. When you write your dream-building time into your calendar you are making a commitment both to yourself and to your dream. When those hours are blocked off on your calendar and a conflict arises, it is so much easier to say, “I’m sorry, I’m already scheduled then.” Because you are.

Can you find one or two hours you can hold sacred each week?  It should be a time that you can keep fairly consistent week to week. If you have small children, see the next tip. 

2. I paid for it.

Writing a check to someone else to care for my child so I can go work is very motivating. I’m far less tempted to “just see what’s on Facebook” when I know how much I’m paying for my hour of screen time. I used those focused hours for tasks that needed my full, focused attention: Writing, solving tech issues, and reading up on new skills. This is my scheduled work time each week.

Can you afford a couple of hours of childcare each week for your small children? Hiring a mother’s helper to entertain kids while you work in a different room or trading childcare with another mom are affordable ways to find that space, too.

3. I made my work portable.

When my daughter was an infant I spent many hours each day nursing her. While that seemed like a great opportunity to read and research, invariably every time I needed to access a file it was on the computer or device that I did not have near me.  I signed up for DropBox and moved my commonly accessed files there. Then I started using Workflowy and Evernote for my to-do list and project notes. Now I keep almost everything in the cloud, which means I can get to whatever I was working on earlier from wherever I happen to be now, regardless of which chair I’m sitting in or whether I’m even at home. I also found a Bluetooth keyboard case for my iPad, which is small enough to tuck in the diaper bag and carry along with me.

In what ways can you re-imagine your work zone?  How can you make it smaller or more portable so that it fits better into the flow of your day?

4. I lowered my expectations.

I take pride in a job well done, while staying just this side of being a perfectionist. But I can not do all that I want to do in my life, while raising a small child, unless I make peace with “good enough.”  Instead of a spotless house, a swept floor, clean toilets, and a wiped-down counter is good enough. A shower, some gel in wet hair and a swipe of eyeliner is good enough. Simple graphics and clean design on my blog are good enough. Writing impressions of experience of motherhood with an authentic voice is good enough for now. In some later season of my life I can do these things better, but right now I live within good enough.

I have also had to get used to less than ideal working conditions: I work while my child sleeps, sometimes in the driver’s seat of my car. I stand at the kitchen counter and write while she plays near me. I research my tech troubles late at night before I find my answers and sometimes it takes more than one night. I have lists upon lists of ideas and goals and projects in notebooks that have pages covered with scribbled toddler drawings. It is not ideal. But if I had waited for ideal, you would not be here reading this article because this blog would not exist.

In what ways do you need to lower your expectations in order to get your dream to see the light of day?

5. I found pockets of time.

After I started using time spent nursing my daughter to read, I started looking for other pockets of time that I could claim back for myself. In my life those gaps were mostly waiting for Bean to go to sleep or waiting for her to wake up, if she fell asleep in the car. For someone with older kids those gaps might be found on the sidelines during sports practice, at the doctor’s office, or in line for school pickup.  I also looked at where I was spending time each week and dropped activities and commitments that I was no longer excited about. This is one tip to use sparingly, because your brain needs downtime and your kids need your undivided attention sometimes.

Where in your life can you find pockets of time that you can fill with small tasks like brainstorming, making lists or reading?

6. I relaxed my principles.

I was not going to be one of those moms who entertained my kid with an iDevice. Until I became one. It turns out there are some really well designed fun and educational games for toddlers that Bean really loves.  She also enjoys looking at photos and videos on my phone.  She gets to watch her life on replay, and I get a few minutes to finish something.

Are there any areas where you could relax a principle, whether it is letting your child watch an educational show one hour a week, or eating pre-prepared food a little more often?

7. I matched tasks to my energy level.

I am not a morning person. But I have a toddler who wakes up at 6AM, if not earlier. With that early start and a full day of keeping up with her, my brain is toast by dinner. I used to be able to work long into the night but that is no longer an option. Now my most productive times of day are late morning and early afternoon.  So I have scheduled my childcare over those windows two days a week and I do my heavy lifting tasks then.  Whenever else I find time during the day I do easy stuff – making idea lists, commenting on blogs and responding to emails, for example.

What is your most mentally productive time of day?  What can you do to clear yourself some space during that window?

Little bits of time do add up, and using that time efficiently will get you where you want to go. I have more posts planned on how to plan out a project and how to be super efficient!  If you haven’t already, sign up for the mailing list to get notified of new posts to this blog.

 

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