Be Nice To Your Future Self

What can you do today be be nice to your future self? ::

I read about this idea, being nice to your future self, in a recent post by Heidi Swanton on 101 Cookbooks. She was talking about how making a big pot of soup so she’d have lunches to take with her to her studio is an act of kindness to her future self. What a brilliant way to think about taking time for self care, or organization, or preparedness, as a way to be nice to yourself in the future.

If I sit down with a cup of tea for 10 minutes before I go pick up my daughter from school, I’m being nice to my self two hours from now, when I would otherwise be grumpy with her.

If I choose to go to bed early tonight, I’m being nice to my tomorrow self.

If I sit down and make a menu plan on Sunday night, I’m being nice to my Monday morning self by having my shopping list ready before I go to the store, and my dinner hour self all week because I know what I’ll be cooking and I know I have all the ingredients.

If I plan a large meal on Monday, I’m being nice to my Tuesday and Wednesday selves when I can skip cooking and just reheat.

If I make time for my dreams, I’m being nice to my future self who will be able to see those dreams realized.

If I take a little time to rest, I will be a better parent, partner, and friend – and that’s nice to me and everyone around me.

What will you do today to be nice to your future self?

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2 Responses to Be Nice To Your Future Self

  1. Deb @ inner compass designs February 11, 2015 at 11:12 pm #

    Love this. Such a great perspective shift. Taking note xxx

    • Doña February 23, 2015 at 2:25 pm #

      Thanks, Deb!

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